We have received some sad news this week. A beloved uncle has passed away. He was loved by every single life he touched. And believe me, he has touched many. His ability to love seemed too big for his own skin, so it spilled over and enveloped all those around him…and then some. He lived life to the fullest, and didn’t hold back when it came to the people he cared about. And it was in the littlest details where he touched people the most I think – a phone call to say hello, a visit to a niece’s volleyball game, a smile, a laugh, a printout of an interesting football article that he knew my husband would enjoy.
I’ve realized, listening to his friends and family, that it is truly in the littlest details that we too can touch other people’s lives the most. Thoughtfulness, kindness, caring…a little goes a long way. So don’t be afraid to be generous.
Just as he had a big appetite for life and love…he also had a big appetite for food. So tito E, this one’s for you.
Bistek Tagalog
- Olive oil
- 350-500 grams sukiyaki cut beef or tenderloin, sliced
1/2 cm thick - 2 tablespoons freshly squeezed calamansi juice
- 3 tablespoons soy sauce
- 5-6 cloves garlic, peeled and bashed up a bit
- Freshly cracked black pepper
- 3-4 medium white onions, sliced
Optional (for a saucier bistek):
- 1/2 – 1 tablespoon freshly squeezed calamansi juice
- 2 tablespoons soy sauce
– Marinate your beef in the 2 tablespoons calamansi juice, 3 tablespoons soy sauce, garlic, and lots of freshly cracked black pepper. Make sure the marinade is mixed well and evenly distributed around the beef. Set aside for 30 minutes.
– Heat a large skillet over high heat. You want all your meat to fit in a single layer. Add a couple of generous glugs of olive oil to the pan.
– Remove your meat from the marinade. Save the marinade for later.
– When the oil is hot, add the beef to the pan, spreading so it cooks in a single layer. If you don’t have a pan big enough, cook the beef in batches. Fry quickly just until meat is almost done. Remove from the pan and set aside.
– There may now be a bit of sauce in the bottom of the pan. Remove this and save for later.
– Add a couple more generous glugs of olive oil to the pan. When the oil is hot add your onions. Cook the onions, stirring occasionally, until soft and golden. Once the onions have reached this state of lethargy, add the reserved marinade along with the pan sauce you had set aside. If you want more sauce then add the calamansi juice and soy sauce that I’ve marked as optional above. Let this bubble up
rapidly, tossing with the onions, to make sure the marinade cooks completely. Sometimes I like to add another drizzle of olive oil at this point.
rapidly, tossing with the onions, to make sure the marinade cooks completely. Sometimes I like to add another drizzle of olive oil at this point.
– Add the beef back in the pan, toss a few times, and then remove to a serving platter. Serve
with steaming white rice!
with steaming white rice!
– Serves 2-3.
As there are, I am sure, as much versions of bistek tagalog as there are Filipinos cooking them, I believe some foot notes are in order on how we like to cook this in our home. Bistek is personified by the unique balance of the soy-calamansi combination. Over here, we like it on the tangy side and this recipe reflects that. If you like is with less of a citrus kick then lessen the calamansi a notch. We also like it with a bit more sauce (better to coat our rice with), which is why I’ve included an option for it here, although it is still good without it. For the beef I like to buy sukiyaki cut because it’s nice and thin. I get it from a purveyor at my weekend market that sells locally raised wagyu beef. The nicely marbled slices make for a luxurious bistek experience. I also use tenderloin sometimes, as indicated above. Do not overcook your beef – you want it tender and yielding. Olive oil is admittedly not a local flavor but I love my bistek with it, so in this instance I’ve given up authenticity for pleasure – I’ve no excuses so please don’t judge! I like to cook my onions until very soft and almost burnished. Others like to keep a
little crunch in them. So feel free to cook them as you like them. I’m also very generous with the black pepper…crack that pepper mill like you’re working out (as if I would really know what that feels like).
little crunch in them. So feel free to cook them as you like them. I’m also very generous with the black pepper…crack that pepper mill like you’re working out (as if I would really know what that feels like).
We are leaving the city for the weekend. Summer is here and making us all yearn for childhood vacations, while our adult self is stuck in front of a computer screen the whole week. So we stuff our bags full of bathing suits and possibilities; pile ourselves, our spirits, and the Pack ‘N Play into our little red car; and head out to enjoy the sun whilst it shines, and each other most of all. Life is short, pick up that phone, connect, snuggle in bed a bit longer, let somebody else answer the phone while you watch your sleeping child.
Love each other.
We will miss you tito E.
UPDATES: I have since made this with anywhere from 250 to 500 grams of beef and it’s worked pretty well. Sometimes, if I want a little sweetness (not too much!) I add a little kecap manis to the marinade/sauce…I highly recommend it! Also, tried this with the sukiyaki-cut chuck roll (grade 6, 500 grams) of Kitayama Meatshop and it was amazing!!
This is a beautiful post. Heaven just welcomed another amazing person into their midst. 🙂
Oh Joey, so sorry to hear about your Uncle! My sympathies to you and your family for your loss. What a touching write-up, he would have loved this, I'm sure! I love Bistek! I've done it over here but had to use lemons in the absence of fresh calamansi. There is nothing like the real fresh flavors of calamansi to make this a real Filipino Bistek. Thanks for sharing the recipe!
My condolences, Joey. And thanks for sharing 🙂
My sincerest condolences for your loss, Joey. I think your uncle would be so proud of you.
I'm sorry for your loss.
Bistek is one of my comfort food. My aunt makes it the best and I love how it makes the whole house smell like lime and soy sauce lol.
Condolences on your loss. This is a beautifully written post and a timely reminder of what is important in life.
Thank you Gio…I agree that heaven just got another amazing person up there!
Hi Betty Ann — thanks for your sympathies. A common lament of Filipinos abroad is that there is no calamansi for bistek! Have you tried growing it? I know one blogger that did.
Hi Ling — Thank you.
Hi Midge — Thanks…I hope so!
Hi Becky — Thanks. I love how the house smells too as it's simmering in the pan…
Hi Marivic — Thank you. Yes, brings to fore what is most important beneath all the "noise" of daily life…must always remember!
I had seen your tweet about working after receiving sad news, but didn't want to intrude. My condolences on the passing of a beloved relative. This is a lovely tribute to him and to the importance of letting our loved ones know exactly how much they mean to us on a daily basis. Thank you for sharing!
Sorry to hear about the loss of your tito E, dear Joey. You obviously have lots of lovely memories to cherish..
Very well said Joey – am sorry to hear about your Tito. He would have been pleased with your tribute.
Ok, this looks really interesting!
I've printed it out and added it to my list of recipes to make really soon!
Thank you for the recipe…
Now i know how to cook this… hmmmm.. thanks you for this recipe
Wow simply great! I love your blog. thank for this post.
one of my favorites! Mmmm! 🙂
Thank you for your sweet words Tracey — so important to savor and appreciate each moment we have…
Thanks Pille…there indeed are.
Thanks Trissa…I certainly hope so!
Hi Grandma Kat – I hope you like it!
Hi Sweethestia – Enjoy, it’s one of our staples!
Thanks Paola!
Hi i♥pinkc00kies – ours as well!
Hi, I just discovered your blog and I am really enjoying your posts! Makes me miss Filipino food (I am a Fil-Chi gal blogging from Toronto, Canada). I miss Bistek Tagalog! This is a fave!! Too bad we don't find calamansi here 🙁
I' sorry for your loss. Your uncle must have been a great person. I like recipe especially the marinate. I will try it this weekend. Thanks
Hi Jen! Have you tried growing calamansi? I know a Filipino blogger in the states who did 🙂
Hi Frank, thank you and hope you enjoy this!
Condolence. Hope this bistek comforted the soul, for it truly is a comforting dish.
Thanks Shalum.
this one goes to the files! i am in need of a good bistek Tagalog recipe. wish we had calamansi here in Toronto; so hard to find here…
Hi Jen! I know…calamansi is one of those things we miss so much when we are abroad…such a distinct taste 🙂 Hope you like this!